• Why Creativity is Self-Care (Plus Five Projects to Help You Thrive)

    If you’ve ever felt like making art is something you need to “earn” after finishing your tasks, this article will change your mind. Learn why creativity is a necessity, not a reward, and explore five projects to spark your inspiration.

    Creativity is self-care calligraphy

    If you feel a little guilty stepping away from your to-do list to do something creative, you’re not alone. Most of us grew up thinking that if we’re not working, cleaning, running errands, or taking care of someone else, we’re “wasting time.” But here’s the truth: your brain needs creative downtime. It’s not a luxury—it’s a necessity.

    The Research

    Doing creative activities like calligraphy, painting, journaling, or even simple doodling can significantly boost your mood and reduce cortisol levels. In fact, a Drexel University study found that 75% of participants had reduced stress after just 45 minutes of creating art—proof that even short creative breaks can be powerful reset buttons. I’ve felt this firsthand: during the colicky newborn days with my first baby, I leaned on quick creative projects like envelope calligraphy and lettering maps. I’d carve out time while my husband cared for the baby, and those little pockets of creativity were my sanity savers.

    Adding Ink to the DIY birthday gift
    I made projects like this lettering map during my first baby’s early (and very fussy) days. It became a small, creative anchor when everything else felt out of control.

    Forbes writes that tapping into your creativity leads to a state of flow. Even if the term “flow state” doesn’t sound familiar, you know the feeling: it’s that meditative, calm state where you get lost in what you’re doing. I always know when I’ve been in a flow state because I’ll look at the clock and feel surprised at how much time has passed! We love the flow state because it “reduces anxiety, boosts your mood, and even slows your heart rate.”

    A lot of people get into a flow state while making calligraphy flourishes (like the ones on this teapot drill).

    In my research, I found a lot of articles that reinforce the idea of creativity and crafting as therapy. One that I enjoyed in particular is This is Your Brain on Crafting, published by CNN. The article explores the experience of a woman who used knitting projects to help her process her brother’s sudden death. I wasn’t surprised; over the years, I’ve heard from many TPK readers who have turned to creativity to navigate life’s toughest moments, from grief and loss to divorce and difficult diagnoses. It’s not just about making something beautiful—it’s about finding a quiet space where your mind can rest, process, and heal.

    11 Calming Calligraphy Drills Printable | The Postman's Knock
    Over 130,000 people have downloaded the 11 Calming Calligraphy Drills Printable. That just goes to show how many of us seek simple, creative ways to find calm, process emotions, and create a little peace on paper.

    How Creativity Changes Your Brain (and Your Mood)

    Your creative practices—like calligraphy, painting, and illustration—work wonders to support your happiness and well-being. Here’s how:

    • It slows your racing thoughts. Whether you’re drawing, painting, writing, or crafting, creative activities require focus on small details. This mindfulness helps squelch anxious or stressful thinking by keeping your mind anchored in the present moment. (One TPK reader recently shared, I’ve been overwhelmed with health challenges recently, and discovering the greenery and succulents letter art project felt like a bright spot in my day. Having something beautiful to create makes me feel calmer when everything else feels out of control.”)
    • It gives you a sense of accomplishment. Making something tangible—whether it’s a beautiful envelope, a sketchbook journal page, or a piece of lettering art—gives your brain that satisfying “I did that!” feeling. It’s a simple, powerful boost to your confidence and mood.
    Two Hours, Four Fancy Envelopes
    For me, sending a beautiful envelope is like sending a little piece of art through the mail. I find so much joy in the creative process, and I like to imagine my recipients smiling when they see my work in their stack of letters.
    • It builds resilience. Creativity teaches patience and adaptability. If a painting doesn’t turn out as planned or a project goes off track, you adjust, problem-solve, and keep going. This mindset strengthens your ability to handle life’s curveballs with grace. (As one TPK reader told me, I’ve messed up on loads of projects—smudged ink, crooked lines, you name it. At first, I’d get all frustrated, but now I just laugh and think, ‘Right, how do I fix this?’ Funny how that’s helped me with life stuff too. Things go wrong, you figure it out, and carry on. It’s not the end of the world, it’s just a bit of a wobble.)
    • It connects you to something bigger. Creativity is deeply human. When you engage in any form of art, you’re part of a long tradition of people expressing themselves and making meaningful projects with their hands and hearts. It’s a reminder that you’re part of something timeless.
    Reader-created illuminated letters
    Here are some stunning creations made by TPK readers using the Easy Illuminated Letter Tutorial. Many of these pieces were crafted as heartfelt gifts, which adds even more meaning to the creative process. Clockwise from the top left, credit goes to: @beginnershand, @theletteringpeacock, @fierceworkingmama, @lizzielanefarm, @pipscalligraphy, and @mistyobarr.

    5 Projects to Make (When You Don’t Know Where to Start)

    Creativity isn’t about perfection—it’s about expression. You don’t have to be a master artist to find joy in making something! In fact, according to a study published by Science Daily, people often find “inherent pleasure in doing art activities independent of the end results.” Here are some projects to start with:

    1. An Inspirational Quote

    What words do you need to hear today? Calligraph or illustrate those words beautifully. Then, frame the finished piece, tape it to a wall, or tuck it into a notebook that you use often.

    Watercolor lettering quote that reads "STAY POSITIVE WORK HARD MAKE IT HAPPEN"
    I recently painted this geometric watercolor quote, which depicts a collection of short commands that I find inspiring.

    There are several tutorials on the TPK site that provide quote inspiration. Try your hand at any of the following:

    2. A Mail Art Envelope

    Mail art is a delightful rabbit hole that leads to all sorts of creative adventures. You’ll probably find that it inspires you to improve your calligraphy and lettering, sparks an interest in watercolor and illustration, and maybe even turns you into a bit of a postage stamp nerd.

    Inky Poppies Mail Art
    The Chic Inky Poppies Mail Art Tutorial is one of my favorites on the TPK Blog. It embraces the art of making mistakes; ink smears are welcome!

    There’s no shortage of mail art tutorials on the TPK Blog, and I’ve loved creating every single one. Still, these four stand out as my favorites because of the unique details and creative joy they bring:

    3. A Sketchbook Page

    When some people hear “sketchbook,” imposter syndrome kicks in. The word conjures images of professional artists casually flipping through pages of masterpieces—cue Jack from Titanic with his flawless figure drawings. But, really, a sketchbook is just a space for exploration, mistakes, doodles, memory-keeping, and/or ideas. In other words, it’s yours to define.

    How to Add Color to Your “Day in the Life” Sketchbook Layout | The Postman's Knock
    There’s nothing quite as soothing as the combination of a sketchbook, a warm drink, and a watercolor palette. If you’re looking for a bit of inspiration, you can peruse some of my sketchbook pages here.

    If you’re new to sketchbooking, read How to Make a Sketchbook Journal (and Why You Should!). In that article, you’ll find tips on how to get started, inspiration for choosing page themes, and encouragement to embrace imperfection. Then, try one of these tutorials:

    4. Letter Art

    There’s a certain freedom that comes with focusing on one letter and turning it into art. It’s a chance to explore details, textures, and flourishes without overthinking the layout. Plus, no kerning to worry about—just pure, creative fun.

    This video course features two hours of video instruction plus printables that will teach you how to make a gorgeous watercolor botanical letter.
    The botanical letter is probably my favorite letter art project on the site. It makes for an amazing gift!

    A lot of TPK’s letter-focused tutorials are pretty beginner-friendly because they start with tracing. It’s about starting with that helpful foundation, then getting into that flow state to make the project your own!

    5. A Greeting Card

    Greeting cards are like little pockets of mindfulness. They give you a focused, manageable space to play with colors, lettering, and designs. The beauty is in the process, and the quiet happiness that comes from sending a little piece of art to someone you care about.

    Calligraphy Birthday Card Tutorial | The Postman's Knock
    This balloon-themed calligraphy birthday card is one of the most popular card tutorials on the TPK Blog.

    There are a variety of greeting card tutorials on the site, and they cover pretty much every occasion (browse them here). Don’t feel limited by the labels—what I call a birthday card could just as easily be used for any occasion. My current four favorite greeting cards on the Blog include:


    Let Go of the Guilt—Your Creativity Matters

    I read an interesting, albeit a bit morbid, quote by Charles de Gaulle the other day: “The graveyard is full of indispensable people.” It’s a stark reminder that life keeps moving, no matter how much we convince ourselves we’re too busy to pause. We often pour our energy into obligations, forgetting that we can’t truly show up for others if we’re running on empty.

    Family photo
    The reason I prioritize creativity? These three. When my cup is full, I’m the best version of myself—for them and for me.

    If you take anything from this article, let it be this: your creativity is not selfish, silly, or a waste of time. It’s fuel, medicine, and a direct path to a happier, more grounded version of you. So, the next time you begin to feel guilty for “stealing” time to create, remember:

    • The laundry (or the emails, or the errands, whatever!) can wait. Life isn’t only about tasks; it’s also about what lights you up.
    • A fulfilled you shows up better for everything and everyone else.
    • Joy is not a luxury. It’s the foundation of a meaningful life.
    Creativity is self-care calligraphy

    I really appreciate you spending part of your day with me. My hope is that you feel inspired to make room for creativity, no matter how busy life gets. It’s okay to pause, let yourself play, and get lost in something you love. Life will be waiting when you come back—and you’ll be more grounded and ready for whatever’s next!

    Warmly,