• Watercolor Lavender Mother’s Day Card Tutorial

    This year’s TPK Mother’s Day card is beautiful, meaningful, and easier to make than it looks. With watercolor video tutorials and thoughtful writing prompts to guide you, this project offers a sweet way to slow down and create something that will mean the world to a special mom.

    DIY Mother's Day card with a lavender motif

    Mother’s Day was founded by Anna Jarvis, who wanted to create a day of heartfelt gestures—not store-bought gifts. Ironically, she spent her later years fighting the very commercialization that overtook her idea (it’s actually a fascinating story). While that ship has sailed, a handmade watercolor card does help to bring Anna’s vision back to life. As you paint today’s simple lavender motif, you’ll have space to reflect on what you want to say—and enjoy a moment of calm and creativity that celebrates life, love, and the mothers who make both possible.

    Lavender Mother's Day card

    1. Gather Your Supplies

    You’ll begin this project by rounding up a few supplies. While I suggest a commercial folded watercolor card in the list below, you can always DIY a card by folding a 7″x10″ (17.8 x 25.4 cm) piece of watercolor paper in half. Note that any basic watercolor palette will work for painting the lavender!

    2. Write a Mother’s Day Greeting

    Start by drawing three sets of pencil guidelines just above the center of the card. Within each set, make the guidelines 1/4″ (~6 mm) apart; and space the sets about 1/8″ (~3 mm) apart. Use a pencil to draft out Sans Serif With Flourishes lettering that says “HAPPY” on the first line. Then, write “mother’s” in casual bouncy calligraphy on the second line. Finish up by using the same sans serif lettering to write “DAY” on the third line.

    Pencil draft on a Mother's Day card
    Be sure to write “mother’s” in all lowercase letters. It offers a nice contrast to the all-caps “HAPPY” and “DAY” lettering.

    Once your pencil draft is finished, use the watercolor calligraphy technique to load dark green watercolor onto your nib. Trace over the lettering until the watercolor runs out, then load a lighter green watercolor tone. Keep alternating loading different watercolors until you’ve gone over the entire greeting.

    Mother's Day greeting card in progress
    If you’re right-handed, you may find it easiest to use an oblique pen to write the right-leaning “mother’s” calligraphy.

    3. Paint Lavender Stems and Leaves

    Now, use your paintbrush and the two greens that you used for the greeting to paint several different stem configurations. Be sure to leave some space around the greeting.

    Mother's Day card with stems
    Try your best to mimic this stem configuration when you’re making your first card.

    Next, use both shades of green watercolor to paint several tapered oval leaves.

    Lavender-themed Mother's Day card

    If you’d like some detailed guidance for drawing the stems and leaves, please feel free to watch the demonstration video below:

    4. Paint Lavender Flowers

    Now, switch to two different tones of purple (a cool dark value and a lighter warm value) to paint a collection of curved oval flower clusters.

    Mother's Day card with a greeting and lavender

    Here’s a quick video demonstration over how to make those flowers:

    Once you’ve finished this step, your card is perfectly lovely and ready to send! But if you’re like me and find it hard to leave well enough alone, move on to Step 5.

    5. Add Flourishes

    You can add balance to your lettering by adding a few well-placed flourishes to either side of your sans serif lettering. Be sure to make a pencil draft of your flourishes first!

    Mother's Day card in progress

    Then, go over those flourishes with your two green watercolor tones.

    Mother's Day card with lavender
    I find it easiest to flourish with an oblique pen, so that’s what I used for this step.

    6. Go Totally Over the Top with a Custom Cut

    If you really want your card to stand out, consider cutting it out in a way that hugs the contours of the lavender. First, use a pencil to draw around your motif, leaving a generous amount of space between the outline and the painting. Don’t forget to leave at least 1″ (~2.5 cm) of the fold intact so the card is still functional.

    Pencil draft outline on a card
    Notice that my outline includes a place on the left where the card won’t be cut.

    Then, use your scissors to cut along the lines you just drew.

    Pretty lavender Mother's Day card

    And voilà! A card that has a distinct bouquet-like feel to it. Once you’re finished with it, you’re ready to write a heartfelt message inside and send the card on its way.

    Watercolor Lavender Mother's Day card
    There’s plenty of room to write on the inside of this card. If you run out of room, you can write on the back.

    Tips for Writing the Perfect Mother’s Day Message

    First, on a practical level, you can use my template for handwritten notes to write orderly cursive inside of your card. Just put the template on a light box, shine it up through the card, and use the guidelines to write.

    Template to write beautiful handwritten notes
    For tips on how to write a gorgeous handwritten note, see the How to Make a Beautiful Handwritten Note tutorial.

    As for what to write, that’s often the trickier part. Our relationships with the mothers in our lives can be joyful, complicated, tender, or evolving — and one message doesn’t fit all. What matters most is that your words feel authentic to you. Take your time. Reflect on a memory, share something you’ve never said out loud, or simply express your love with depth. Here are some prompts that can help you to get started:

    • One of my favorite memories with you is…
    • Something I don’t say enough is…
    • I admire the way you…
    • I love you for reasons big and small — like…
    • You probably don’t realize how much it meant to me when…

    Tip: I like to compose my message using the word processor on my computer first. Once I’m happy with it, I handwrite it.

    DIY Mother's Day card with a lavender motif

    Explore Additional Handmade Mother’s Day Cards and Gifts

    If you’re looking for more inspiration, remember that the TPK Blog has plenty of Mother’s Day card concepts (browse all of them here). My favorites include:

    Quick Butterfly-Themed Calligraphy Mother's Day Card Tutorial

    If you have a bit of extra time between now and Mother’s Day, consider making a DIY gift to complement your card. You can browse eight artistic Mother’s Day gift ideas by clicking here.


    Thanks for spending this creative moment with me! I hope this tutorial helps you make something that’s just as enjoyable to give as it was to create. I’m wishing you a day filled with love, reflection, and a touch of handmade beauty.

    Warmly,